"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives"
– Esther Perel
“Nothing is more important in our lives than our relationships. A great relationship boosts your immune system, opens your heart, and keeps you vital and creative.”
– Terry Real
There is so much aliveness in our longing for genuine connection. Bonding with another and staying grounded within ourselves is a skill that has not been valued or taught in our culture. This lack causes so much confusion, loneliness, and codependency, and isolation in relationships.
I used to think that my Soulmate and I would journey through the healing process together. There would be so much love we would heal our wounds. Well, many romantic relationships, a divorce, and a death of a partner later, I see that the soul’s journey is indeed through the path of relationship, but EVERY relationship is an opportunity to connect the soul and heal. I still long for a life partner but I also appreciate that all my relationships were successful because of the self awareness that took place.
What Clients Say
Arjan and I started working together right as I was fighting to come out of a dark, difficult period. She guided me through some dense inner weeds, so to speak, and helped me uncover the truths of my core - my inner wisdom - that had been there all along, but which I couldn't see. Through our work, I was able to define and realign with my soul purpose and step more fully into myself again. Truly a gift.