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arjanmakar12
Dec 14, 20242 min read
Fireworks, Sparks, Fuses and Slow Burns: The Dating Advice Is Not Complete
Many well-known relationship coaches and influencers are currently discussing "the myth of the spark." The popular belief is that feeling...
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arjanmakar12
Oct 13, 20242 min read
Ten Non-Codependent Love Songs!
I adore love songs, yet with maturity, I've recognized that their sentiments can be overly dramatic and sometimes unhealthy. Below is a...
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arjanmakar12
Sep 26, 20243 min read
Being Single Is Part Of A Love Story
"Well there's a wide wide world of noble causes and lovely landscapes to discover, but all I really want to do right now is find another...
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arjanmakar12
Jun 10, 20243 min read
How To Take Care of Yourself
Our culture is one of outsourcing our needs. We look to a partner to feel seen, loved, acknowledged, and understood. We look to books...
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arjanmakar12
Apr 5, 20242 min read
It Can't Be Sunny All the Time. Let it Rain. Grieve.
In March of 2021 my boyfriend, Damien, died suddenly and unexpectedly at 44 years old. After some debilitating shock and sadness, I was...
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arjanmakar12
Jan 17, 20241 min read
Questions to ask yourself as we begin a New Year
Where did I succeed last year? What did that teach me? Where did I fail last year? What did that teach me? What do I want to bring...
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arjanmakar12
Dec 13, 20232 min read
Are you having trouble manifesting your dreams? Try setting better boundaries!
As a free spirit hippie at heart, I traditionally cringe when the subject of boundaries comes up. Boundaries seem counterintuitive to the...
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arjanmakar12
Oct 29, 20233 min read
What does it mean to trust someone?
I hear it from friends and clients all the time, "I'm not sure if I can trust him/her?" We are so fixated on a black and white reality...
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arjanmakar12
Sep 26, 20233 min read
What Exactly Does Self Love Look Like?
#securerelationship #selflove #authenticity #relationshipcoaching The term self-love is tossed around a bunch in memes on social media...
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arjanmakar12
Aug 22, 20234 min read
Relationship Alchemy: Balancing Your Needs and Your Partner's Needs
#relationshipcoaching #secureattachment #boundaries #selflove #needs #values Having good relationships is important to a happy and...
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arjanmakar12
Jul 28, 20235 min read
Relational Intelligence 101: The Basics
#relationshipcoaching #dating #securerelationship #selflove In my own life and working with clients and talking with friends. I am quite...
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arjanmakar12
Jul 13, 20234 min read
What Does “Take It Slow” mean in a new relationship?
As a human species, I really do believe we are evolving. The most prominent evidence I see is all the relationship advice on social...
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arjanmakar12
Jun 2, 20232 min read
Falling In Love With Our Own Soul
#relationshipcoaching #authenticity #manifestingrelationship #selflove When I was 19 years old I fell in love for the first time. This...
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arjanmakar12
May 16, 20232 min read
The 5 Relationship Challenges Nobody Talks About
Our intimate relationships provide a space for some of our greatest joys. With joy, though, there is also the opportunity for challenges...
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arjanmakar12
Apr 25, 20231 min read
How to fall in love in the Spring
Imagine that exhilarating feeling of falling in love! The newness, the hope, the anticipation, the profound appreciation of your...
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arjanmakar12
Apr 7, 20231 min read
Relationship Ah-has!
Not every relationship is meant to be forever There are gifts in past relationships that didn't work out I cannot control what my partner...
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arjanmakar12
Mar 11, 20232 min read
The Power of our Relationships
Being on the path of self awareness and growth, I was taught that being alone was essential for my development. I don't think its true...
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arjanmakar12
Feb 13, 20232 min read
Valentine's Day Reflection: Independence and interdependence
#relationshipcoaching#relationshipvalues#interdepence As I celebrate my 1year anniversary of getting my coaching certification, I am...
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arjanmakar12
Jan 9, 20232 min read
New Year Old You
I've been thinking a lot about New Years Resolutions and new beginnings and reinventing the self. If you are feeling empowered by any of...
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arjanmakar12
Dec 15, 20222 min read
My Solstice Wish
Well, I just spent a lot of money on Christmas lights! It's my favorite thing about the holidays- the human desire to shine in the...
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