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Trusting Yourself in New Relationships: Navigating Intuition, Wisdom, and Past Trauma
I recently decided to explore the world of dating apps after being single for about a year — and honestly, it took some courage. The modern dating landscape felt unfamiliar, and there’s something deeply vulnerable about saying to the world, “Hi, I’m looking for love.” We get so many mixed messages about love. When I was younger, I thought something was wrong with me for always wanting a boyfriend — for feeling like a loser when I went to a school dance alone, or for being “of
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Oct 213 min read


Fireworks, Sparks, Fuses and Slow Burns: The Dating Advice Is Not Complete
Many well-known relationship coaches and influencers are currently discussing "the myth of the spark." The popular belief is that feeling...
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Dec 14, 20242 min read


Ten Non-Codependent Love Songs!
I adore love songs, yet with maturity, I've recognized that their sentiments can be overly dramatic and sometimes unhealthy. Below is a...
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Oct 13, 20242 min read


Being Single Is Part Of A Love Story
"Well there's a wide wide world of noble causes and lovely landscapes to discover, but all I really want to do right now is find another...
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Sep 26, 20243 min read


How To Take Care of Yourself
Our culture is one of outsourcing our needs. We look to a partner to feel seen, loved, acknowledged, and understood. We look to books...
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Jun 10, 20243 min read


It Can't Be Sunny All the Time. Let it Rain. Grieve.
In March of 2021 my boyfriend, Damien, died suddenly and unexpectedly at 44 years old. After some debilitating shock and sadness, I was...
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Apr 5, 20242 min read


Questions to ask yourself as we begin a New Year
Where did I succeed last year? What did that teach me? Where did I fail last year? What did that teach me? What do I want to bring...
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Jan 17, 20241 min read


Are you having trouble manifesting your dreams? Try setting better boundaries!
As a free spirit hippie at heart, I traditionally cringe when the subject of boundaries comes up. Boundaries seem counterintuitive to the...
arjanmakar12
Dec 13, 20232 min read


What does it mean to trust someone?
I hear it from friends and clients all the time, "I'm not sure if I can trust him/her?" We are so fixated on a black and white reality...
arjanmakar12
Oct 29, 20233 min read


What Exactly Does Self Love Look Like?
#securerelationship #selflove #authenticity #relationshipcoaching The term self-love is tossed around a bunch in memes on social media...
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Sep 26, 20233 min read


Relationship Alchemy: Balancing Your Needs and Your Partner's Needs
#relationshipcoaching #secureattachment #boundaries #selflove #needs #values Having good relationships is important to a happy and...
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Aug 22, 20234 min read


Relational Intelligence 101: The Basics
#relationshipcoaching #dating #securerelationship #selflove In my own life and working with clients and talking with friends. I am quite...
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Jul 28, 20235 min read


What Does “Take It Slow” mean in a new relationship?
As a human species, I really do believe we are evolving. The most prominent evidence I see is all the relationship advice on social...
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Jul 13, 20234 min read


Falling In Love With Our Own Soul
#relationshipcoaching #authenticity #manifestingrelationship #selflove When I was 19 years old I fell in love for the first time. This...
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Jun 2, 20232 min read


The 5 Relationship Challenges Nobody Talks About
Our intimate relationships provide a space for some of our greatest joys. With joy, though, there is also the opportunity for challenges...
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May 16, 20232 min read


How to fall in love in the Spring
Imagine that exhilarating feeling of falling in love! The newness, the hope, the anticipation, the profound appreciation of your...
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Apr 25, 20231 min read


Relationship Ah-has!
Not every relationship is meant to be forever There are gifts in past relationships that didn't work out I cannot control what my partner...
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Apr 7, 20231 min read


The Power of our Relationships
Being on the path of self awareness and growth, I was taught that being alone was essential for my development. I don't think its true...
arjanmakar12
Mar 11, 20232 min read


Valentine's Day Reflection: Independence and interdependence
#relationshipcoaching#relationshipvalues#interdepence As I celebrate my 1year anniversary of getting my coaching certification, I am...
arjanmakar12
Feb 13, 20232 min read


New Year Old You
I've been thinking a lot about New Years Resolutions and new beginnings and reinventing the self. If you are feeling empowered by any of...
arjanmakar12
Jan 9, 20232 min read
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